Blending Sands to Unite Your Families
The Unity Sand Ceremony
The unity sand ceremony is similar in purpose to the unity candle ceremony in that it allows other members of the newly united family to take part. In addition to the bride and groom, one or more members of the bride's and groom's families may participate. Many couples like the idea of this ceremony because it works well at an outdoor wedding and is a great way to acknowledge a couple's existing children as they blend into the new family
As with the unity candle there are at least 3 vessels or vases. One will contain the blended sand from all participants and the others usually contain different colored sands from at least the bride and groom. Three vessels of almost any type that are meaningful to the newlyweds or appropriate for their theme may be used. The center vessel is clear so that everyone can see the artistry of the sand. It is usually larger than the others and can become a treasured art-piece for the couple to display.
If you use 3 vases - for example, one with white sand for the bride; one with colored sand for the groom and a central one to receive the mixture, the smaller ones can be used for flowers afterwards. Children from blended families can have vessels with their own colors of sand. In a beach wedding or one having a beach or Hawaiian theme, the bride and groom can use seashells to hold their sand
If you use 3 vases - for example, one with white sand for the bride; one with colored sand for the groom and a central one to receive the mixture, the smaller ones can be used for flowers afterwards. Children from blended families can have vessels with their own colors of sand. In a beach wedding or one having a beach or Hawaiian theme, the bride and groom can use seashells to hold their sand
Sand is available online or from a local craft store or may be collected from a beach or other location that has meaning to the couple. Likewise, vases or vessels specific to the sand ceremony may be bought at specialty stores on-line. These can often be personalized with the couple's names and wedding date. A local florist or craft store is another source for containers that suit the couple's unique style.
As with the unity candle ceremony, please check with your officiate and/or house of worship to make sure that this may be part of your wedding.